let the vacation begin.

I think that a lot of parents dread dropping their kids off at childcare. The meltdowns. The tears. The peeling your child off your leg. I feel for those parents - I really, really do. It's not like I've never had to leave Kale in tears, only to burst into tears myself the second I got in the car. Luckily, we've moved past that and Kale LOVES his school and so dropping him off in the morning is one of my favourite parts of the day.

Yesterday I tweeted with joy after dropping Kale off at school - "LET THE VACATION BEGIN!!" Woot woot - three whole hours of ME TIME!! I was ecstatic. I could clean my car out, do the laundry (don't tell Kale I did it without him), clean out my sock drawer - whatever. I could lay on my ass and read all about the Kardashian's if I wanted to (and I did). And when @WeeMasonMom from omgababy.com replied to my tweet and told me she loved me because I was the only one she knew with the balls to say they're excited their kids are in school while they're at home, I was all like "yeah, I got balls." And then I thought, "mom fail?" Possibly. Whatever - LET THE VACATION BEGIN!

Ok, so back to my love of dropping Kale off at school. Let me describe a typical drop off and then tell me it's not awesome.

I get Kale in the car around 8am. The second he is strapped in he demands that I take his hat and boots off. No problem - it's unseasonably warm and who wants to deal with a toddler freakout that early anyway. Once in the driver's seat, I gauge Kale's satisfaction in the seat. If he's cool watching things out the window, I turn up the CBC and get my Matt Galloway fix. If Kale turns on the crank, it's Sharon, Lois & Bram. At red lights we wave to each other through our mirrors and Kale tells me stories.

Once we get to school, Kale starts shouting "COOL! COOL! ISLA! ISLA!" (translation: school! school! Isla! Isla! - his friend). I carry him in to the school even though the school owner told me we should let him walk. Ehh - we all know what I think of her. Once inside, Kale rushes to get his boots, hat and coat off and puts them away in his little bin. He then tries to convince me to take my coat off and I decline. He gives up on me, takes my hand and runs on the spot in excitement. We walk into the gym and say hello to his teacher and the other students that are there. He shyly curls up to my leg and takes it all in.....

Then one of three things happens:

1) He turns and gives me a kiss and says "buh-bye" and takes his teachers hand and walks her over to the toys.

2) He jumps on a riding toy and takes off, yelling "buh-bye" over his shoulder.

Or, like he did this morning:

3) Gives me a kiss, walks me to the door, says "door! out! buh-bye" and pushes me out.

And how can I not be happy with that? He loves it there soooo much and is just so thrilled to be there, with his friends and his teacher and all the stuff he loves doing.

And that's why I can tweet "LET THE VACATION BEGIN" with absolutely no guilt. 

And I can't write two posts in a row with no pictures, so:






9 comments:

  1. Hahahah, congrats on your balls! LOL

    Mason is much the same way - we get to daycare, he demands that I remove his coat and he then grabs a chair and drags it to the breakfast table and sits down and waves bye bye. About 80% of the time I pick him up, he smiles and waves and keeps playing. And when I tell him it's time to go? He screams "No!!" and runs away.

    I'm so sick of hearing the "Bet you wish your husband made more money so you could stay home with him / going to work every day must be sooooooooooo hard" etc etc etc. Yes, the lost time sucks, but Mason has learned many things that I would have never thought to teach him and has a great time playing with his daycare friends, something he doesn't have at home. But yeah, preaching to the choir here....

    Oh, and I'm totally taking January 6th off and Mason is still going to daycare. Woohoo!

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  2. awww I love that you guys wave to each other in the mirror at red lights... I can visual the sweetness in my head... melt.my.heart.

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  3. Taking "me" time is never a mom fail! I often take personal days from work and keep Avery in daycare. I feel it's the responsible thing to do. A happier, healthier mother means a happier, healthier child/family. Let's keep this message going! Happy Holidays to you and yours!

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  4. Taking time to recharge yourself while you know Kale is having an awesome time at school is definitely mom win.

    Tom now tells me to go outside when I drop him off :)

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  5. It warms my heart to read this because I really can't wait for Audrey to be in daycare/school. I've come to terms with the fact that I can't be a million people at once (a mom, a cook, a cleaning lady, a general contractor, a PhD student, etc., etc.), so I'm really looking forward to some more "free" time to attend to all the other things in my life aside from mommy duties while not perpetually feeling like my attention is divided between Audrey and something else.

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  6. this post just confirms it: we are all in this together. your words always mirror my thoughts.

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  7. I'm right there with you. I love my daughters, but sometimes it's nice to have some time apart, so you get a chance to miss each other!

    My older daughter is super-social and she never cries when I drop her off anywhere. It's such a blessing - I can't imagine how heart-wrenching it would be to drop off a crying babe! And you can really enjoy your alone time, knowing your little one's having a great time without you!

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  8. Dropping your kids off and seeing them happy, socializing and learning and expanding their wings: it's a true joy!!
    Merry Christmas to you and your beautiful family!!!

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  9. I can relate, kind of. I do send him to day care when I have to get work done. I have the same thrill you have because I usually try to give myself an hour or so to get stuff done around the house that I couldn't have done with him. However, when we send him to day care we send him for a full day so as not to disrupt his routine and so he doesn't start expecting us to pick him up early. AND so Mama can get her work done. Not just started. Done. Sending him for 8 hours still makes me feel guilty. I just can't help it. I'm wired this way.

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